Body Found Near Paula Abdul's Home

When one of my friends tells me he/she feels as though he/she has or has had a secret admirer, such information is usually absorbed in a lighthearted manner. So lighthearted, that we laugh it off and move on.

Because secret admirers are just that, a secret. These, as you all know are individuals who admire their ´interests´ from a safe distance.

And usually, in time, the infatuation or crush wears off and said admirer moves on. Stalkers on the other hand, are much more aggressive.

These persons will go out of their way to find out where their ´interests´ reside, follow them around, maybe even call them and hang up without uttering a word and so on.

They, the stalkers make the secret admirers seem safe in comparison. And recently when it was learned that the body of a suspected Paula Abdul stalker was found close to her house, I paused for a moment.

Paused to wonder how seriously some alleged stalkers can take their admiration of their ´interest.´ I am not aware of whether or not I have ever had a real secret admirer or a stalker, but since I am a fan of her music, ´Straight Up,´ ´Cold Hearted ,´ ´Rush Rush,´ and other songs, I hope Paula Abdul is coping with the situation of her alleged stalker´s situation the best she can.