A Little Trip Down Break Up Land
Judy Ramsook
April 14, 2006
The dating landscape can be filled with pitfalls that may leave one feeling as if he or she is better of alone and thinking whether some societies in the world had the right idea all along. The one of arranged marriages and match making, the couples involved get to know each other later on, whether they are compatible or not, after exchanging marriage vows.
If one is on the dating process road though, there will come a time when break ups will rear their heads. Of course they usually occur when one of the parties wants out of his or her association with the other individual. When that occurs, it leaves one to wonder is there anything such a good break up and what about a few of those reasons some people use.
We have all been the shoulder to cry on at some point in our friends’ lives. Time and time again the phrase we had a really bad break up is heard. It’s some of those reasons a person might give his consort that also make one wonder. Below are just a few of those reasons.
A guy who seemed to have low self esteem problems, and could not believe that he was dating a beautiful young woman told her at the end of their dating period, she should get a job as a telephone actress.
It was quite a blow to her self esteem at first, but everytime she recalled his words after that, it eased the pain of the break up a bit.
This is a pretty common one. Some one tells the other party he or she is not ready for marriage, a couple months after the break up, you learn said individual has married some one you once considered to be a friend.
Of course some individuals simply say they don’t think it’s going to work. Some persons say this after the other party has already invested a good amount of his or her time and or money into what he or she is thinking will be ‘the one.’
Then there are some people who are not considerate enough to come up with a reason. Those individuals simply cease all communication.
There are no more phone calls, emails, text messages or visits from those persons. No matter how many excuses the other individual in the association uses to deny the break up, the wave of silence from the other party continues.
Of course, no one likes to be on the receiving end of a break up, reason or not. If the person who has not given a reason is alive and well, has not been kidnapped, abducted or held against his or her will, and has not bothered to inform you that your little trip down dating land is over, it is over anyway. So do yourself a favour and move on.
Sometimes, some break ups can really put one’s self esteem to the test. A test that can make some stay away from the dating scene for a while and keep others searching for the one for which there is no break up. Good luck if you find that special some one, or if he or she finds you.
If one is on the dating process road though, there will come a time when break ups will rear their heads. Of course they usually occur when one of the parties wants out of his or her association with the other individual. When that occurs, it leaves one to wonder is there anything such a good break up and what about a few of those reasons some people use.
We have all been the shoulder to cry on at some point in our friends’ lives. Time and time again the phrase we had a really bad break up is heard. It’s some of those reasons a person might give his consort that also make one wonder. Below are just a few of those reasons.
A guy who seemed to have low self esteem problems, and could not believe that he was dating a beautiful young woman told her at the end of their dating period, she should get a job as a telephone actress.
It was quite a blow to her self esteem at first, but everytime she recalled his words after that, it eased the pain of the break up a bit.
This is a pretty common one. Some one tells the other party he or she is not ready for marriage, a couple months after the break up, you learn said individual has married some one you once considered to be a friend.
Of course some individuals simply say they don’t think it’s going to work. Some persons say this after the other party has already invested a good amount of his or her time and or money into what he or she is thinking will be ‘the one.’
Then there are some people who are not considerate enough to come up with a reason. Those individuals simply cease all communication.
There are no more phone calls, emails, text messages or visits from those persons. No matter how many excuses the other individual in the association uses to deny the break up, the wave of silence from the other party continues.
Of course, no one likes to be on the receiving end of a break up, reason or not. If the person who has not given a reason is alive and well, has not been kidnapped, abducted or held against his or her will, and has not bothered to inform you that your little trip down dating land is over, it is over anyway. So do yourself a favour and move on.
Sometimes, some break ups can really put one’s self esteem to the test. A test that can make some stay away from the dating scene for a while and keep others searching for the one for which there is no break up. Good luck if you find that special some one, or if he or she finds you.
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