What a Man Should Know
Melissa Smith-Gay
August 30, 2008
To all of the women in the world:
How backwards are men? They say they want a woman to be strong and independent but yet they are bothered if you voice your opinion. Second, if you and your man are having a conversation and he looks deep in your eyes and he claims he wants you the why can´t he pick up a simple phone and call you. The whole relationship thing is not that hard. It is pretty simple and the men out there need to listen up. Men think women are hard to understand. No, we are not, we just get tired of men´s issues and games men like to play. Whether you´re single or married it´s all the same. When are boys going to become men? Is it really the poor sucker who actually goes out with you, job to clean up what your mommy didn´t teach you? A little thing called respect. You must have three things in any relationship whether it is as friends or on a more romantic level; 1. Respect, 2 Honesty and 3 Trust. If you lose one you lose all three. You cannot be involved with someone who does not respect you. In my experiences guys or shall we call them boys are selfish in a whole. Ask yourselves this question how many times have you women found yourselves saying this little ditty, "Why don´t you consider my feelings?" or "Why did you just do that?", or my favorite, "You don´t think about me at all?" If you have had to say these things to a man that is because he is selfish and he only thinks of himself. I even have guy friends that expect you to be there when they want you but what about your feelings. If you are too busy for them they get their feelings hurt and you got to kiss butt just to make them feel better but if it´s you that is complaining to get an apology out of this guy you might as well bash your head up against the wall then apologize to yourself that is the only way you will ever get a real apology. I am very upset that I find myself at this age and are dealing with men all in their late 20´s early 30´s and they still act this way. Yes, women are more emotional than men….who cares. The bottom line is we want a few things so read closely or listen up this is not that hard to figure out.
1. Women want you to respond to simple tasks like picking up the phone and saying, "Hello! How was your day?"
2. When a girl tells you she likes you and you like her that is a good things. Quit running, you´re a wimp.
3. Be a man, step up and be a man.
4. Handle and conduct yourself like a gentleman on the street. A freak in the bedroom is fine.
5. A woman wants a man that is confident in the bedroom and who will take her, not beg her for sex. It´s not attractive. That is why she says no. There is no passion and she is bored.
6. Return a phone call. You´re not confused you´re an idiot.
7. If you don´t want that women, leave her the hell alone. She can always find another man faster than you can women. Guaranteed!
8. If you want the girl make a move. Women, real women get tired of the games and will move on quickly.
9. Be respectful. Always, always, always.
10. Consider her feelings. We don´t want to talk with you any more about relationships then you do we want you to change but in reality we should give up and replace you.
11. Always remember if you are looking at that woman so is another man. Yes, you always have competition. Girls like getting attention if you aren´t going to give it to her, she will find it elsewhere.
12. If you are going to cheat don´t do it with the girl next door. Find someone who is not her friend.
13. When you come to the bedroom, bring it. What are you holding back for your golden years? Make the initiative to learn a little something. Only 1 out of every 10 guys knows what they are doing.
14. Love with all of your heart or not at all.
15. If the relationship is not going to work let it go, grow up and move on with your life and quit making the two of you miserable. If you spend more days unhappy than happy than something is not right. Life is too short.
These things are not hard to ask for but are hard to find. Eventually, men will be men I hope but in this day and age we thought the caveman was bad now what will the people 1000 years from now think of the way men were of today. I am not trying to bash men, I promise. I just want what I deserve. I am tired of men from yester year who could have had you when you were with them coming back later and telling you everything they should have done. OH! Now they grow up a little and now they want you to trust the fact of what they are saying to you. No, it is not alright to go back and yes, you´re an idiot for letting the girl go in the first place because you couldn´t pull your own head out of your butt for two seconds to be the man she needed so now you are pining for her. Good eat your heart out. I give men one chance and only one chance and while I am with them I love the crap out of them. I am a woman who is good to her man, has a good job and works hard at everything, the relationship and the bedroom. I need a man that can hold up and that is certainly hard to find but somehow the ex´s always return and they always want that good women back. Listen up if you have a good woman treat her as such. Quit trying to impress your friends she is not a conquest she has real feelings and she needs for you too as well. Live every moment without regrets because any man that has had a good women and let´s her go always regrets it.
How backwards are men? They say they want a woman to be strong and independent but yet they are bothered if you voice your opinion. Second, if you and your man are having a conversation and he looks deep in your eyes and he claims he wants you the why can´t he pick up a simple phone and call you. The whole relationship thing is not that hard. It is pretty simple and the men out there need to listen up. Men think women are hard to understand. No, we are not, we just get tired of men´s issues and games men like to play. Whether you´re single or married it´s all the same. When are boys going to become men? Is it really the poor sucker who actually goes out with you, job to clean up what your mommy didn´t teach you? A little thing called respect. You must have three things in any relationship whether it is as friends or on a more romantic level; 1. Respect, 2 Honesty and 3 Trust. If you lose one you lose all three. You cannot be involved with someone who does not respect you. In my experiences guys or shall we call them boys are selfish in a whole. Ask yourselves this question how many times have you women found yourselves saying this little ditty, "Why don´t you consider my feelings?" or "Why did you just do that?", or my favorite, "You don´t think about me at all?" If you have had to say these things to a man that is because he is selfish and he only thinks of himself. I even have guy friends that expect you to be there when they want you but what about your feelings. If you are too busy for them they get their feelings hurt and you got to kiss butt just to make them feel better but if it´s you that is complaining to get an apology out of this guy you might as well bash your head up against the wall then apologize to yourself that is the only way you will ever get a real apology. I am very upset that I find myself at this age and are dealing with men all in their late 20´s early 30´s and they still act this way. Yes, women are more emotional than men….who cares. The bottom line is we want a few things so read closely or listen up this is not that hard to figure out.
1. Women want you to respond to simple tasks like picking up the phone and saying, "Hello! How was your day?"
2. When a girl tells you she likes you and you like her that is a good things. Quit running, you´re a wimp.
3. Be a man, step up and be a man.
4. Handle and conduct yourself like a gentleman on the street. A freak in the bedroom is fine.
5. A woman wants a man that is confident in the bedroom and who will take her, not beg her for sex. It´s not attractive. That is why she says no. There is no passion and she is bored.
6. Return a phone call. You´re not confused you´re an idiot.
7. If you don´t want that women, leave her the hell alone. She can always find another man faster than you can women. Guaranteed!
8. If you want the girl make a move. Women, real women get tired of the games and will move on quickly.
9. Be respectful. Always, always, always.
10. Consider her feelings. We don´t want to talk with you any more about relationships then you do we want you to change but in reality we should give up and replace you.
11. Always remember if you are looking at that woman so is another man. Yes, you always have competition. Girls like getting attention if you aren´t going to give it to her, she will find it elsewhere.
12. If you are going to cheat don´t do it with the girl next door. Find someone who is not her friend.
13. When you come to the bedroom, bring it. What are you holding back for your golden years? Make the initiative to learn a little something. Only 1 out of every 10 guys knows what they are doing.
14. Love with all of your heart or not at all.
15. If the relationship is not going to work let it go, grow up and move on with your life and quit making the two of you miserable. If you spend more days unhappy than happy than something is not right. Life is too short.
These things are not hard to ask for but are hard to find. Eventually, men will be men I hope but in this day and age we thought the caveman was bad now what will the people 1000 years from now think of the way men were of today. I am not trying to bash men, I promise. I just want what I deserve. I am tired of men from yester year who could have had you when you were with them coming back later and telling you everything they should have done. OH! Now they grow up a little and now they want you to trust the fact of what they are saying to you. No, it is not alright to go back and yes, you´re an idiot for letting the girl go in the first place because you couldn´t pull your own head out of your butt for two seconds to be the man she needed so now you are pining for her. Good eat your heart out. I give men one chance and only one chance and while I am with them I love the crap out of them. I am a woman who is good to her man, has a good job and works hard at everything, the relationship and the bedroom. I need a man that can hold up and that is certainly hard to find but somehow the ex´s always return and they always want that good women back. Listen up if you have a good woman treat her as such. Quit trying to impress your friends she is not a conquest she has real feelings and she needs for you too as well. Live every moment without regrets because any man that has had a good women and let´s her go always regrets it.
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