Self Love And Hatred, Which One Have You Chosen?
Judy Ramsook
January 23, 2006
Some people say there are certain things in life that are universal. We are products of the environments we were conceived in and brought into.
If we grow up surrounded by an abundance love and attention, we learn early on to love ourselves, if not, the opposite can occur.
Furthermore, it has been noted that if some of us hate ourselves, and some of us do in the adoloscent stage, you will attract negativity. Of course there are the few who may manage to come by good things through luck, and excellent parenting.
Sometimes some of us are not even aware that we hate ourselves until some one else comes along and makes the observation. At which time the one who has been accused of hating himself might stop and take notice.
He or she might notice things such as maybe he or she does not take care of him or herself as if he or she loves himself, something which can alarm a few persons in our midst. Those things by the way, could be easy to spot too.
Things such as not taking care of your body as you should, the outside as well as the inside. Maybe you prefer to consume the type of food you know is bad for you as opposed to what’s good.
In addition, you may also over indulge in certain things such as alcohol or tobacco products. Any of which can shorten your life, thus giving others the notion that you do indeed do not love yourself, at least not enough to want to prolong it.
As for the physical appearance. If you don’t care how you present yourself to the public, strangers who are judging you will make the same observation.
A person who cares about him or herself will make the extra effort to look for the most part, as presentable as possible.
It has also been noted that amazing, positive changes in one’s life can come about if others observe that he loves himself.
Sometimes, it’s when self hatred is set aside and self love enters the picture, is when the world might open up and come to you.
This might not be certain for most situations in life, but sometimes if one thing is not working, you have to try the opposite. If, for example self hatred is bringing too much negative results, try self love. If others see that you like or even love yourself, they will like you too.
If we grow up surrounded by an abundance love and attention, we learn early on to love ourselves, if not, the opposite can occur.
Furthermore, it has been noted that if some of us hate ourselves, and some of us do in the adoloscent stage, you will attract negativity. Of course there are the few who may manage to come by good things through luck, and excellent parenting.
Sometimes some of us are not even aware that we hate ourselves until some one else comes along and makes the observation. At which time the one who has been accused of hating himself might stop and take notice.
He or she might notice things such as maybe he or she does not take care of him or herself as if he or she loves himself, something which can alarm a few persons in our midst. Those things by the way, could be easy to spot too.
Things such as not taking care of your body as you should, the outside as well as the inside. Maybe you prefer to consume the type of food you know is bad for you as opposed to what’s good.
In addition, you may also over indulge in certain things such as alcohol or tobacco products. Any of which can shorten your life, thus giving others the notion that you do indeed do not love yourself, at least not enough to want to prolong it.
As for the physical appearance. If you don’t care how you present yourself to the public, strangers who are judging you will make the same observation.
A person who cares about him or herself will make the extra effort to look for the most part, as presentable as possible.
It has also been noted that amazing, positive changes in one’s life can come about if others observe that he loves himself.
Sometimes, it’s when self hatred is set aside and self love enters the picture, is when the world might open up and come to you.
This might not be certain for most situations in life, but sometimes if one thing is not working, you have to try the opposite. If, for example self hatred is bringing too much negative results, try self love. If others see that you like or even love yourself, they will like you too.
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