Good Service, what's that?

Tara Paterson
Ask not that events should happen as you will, but let your will be that events should happen as they do and you shall have peace. –Epictetus



Whatever happened to good service? It seems that everywhere you go these days the one thing that stands out the most in many situations is the lack of good customer service. Whether it’s the cashier at the checkout in the grocery store; the customer service assistant at the cable company; or the ticket agent at the airport; the motto of the customer is always right or we will do whatever is necessary to please our clients, seems to have disappeared from company policies like planes in the Bermuda triangle!



We recently decided to hire painters to paint the interior of our home. I was excited to finally have a finished office, family room, and kitchen, which had been sitting half done for over a year. I could not wait to finally begin organizing our space. The project seemed to begin with ease. Granted, some of the rooms were going to require more work than others, but that’s what professionals do, right? That’s what I thought anyway….



First, we were told that they would need to have at least 2 rooms to work on at a time, which made sense since the paint would need to dry. So we moved things from one room to another with the understanding that the rooms we uprooted would be put back later in the evening. I truly expected that hiring professional painters to finish the work we detest (painting), would be a pleasant and speedy experience. Boy was I wrong.



Never would I have anticipated the amount of work I would encounter having painters in the house. They tracked dirt and mud through the house; they left painted footprints on our rugs; they dropped paint splatters on the hardwood floors; they left our front door wide open for our adventurous cat to sneak out of, repeatedly; they nicked the woodwork; they dropped our satellite receiver onto the floor (which we need to replace)…. and the list goes on and not so much as an apology of any kind. All we heard were the excuses for arriving at 10am and leaving before 4pm or why they wouldn’t be back for a week.. (oh don’t get me started on that one)…



Needless to say we are into the third week of this project, none of our rooms are complete and I must find the resolve to continue my work and not allow the chaos to overwhelm me. Somewhere along the line, customer service or client appreciation has been shuffled aside and replaced by people showing up for work. For those of us who truly work hard to treat our clients with respect and consideration, we have the decline of customer service to thank for the skepticism that many people have about the way in which they will be treated.



“If you don’t like something, change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” –Mary Engelbreit.



I will change the way I think about this experience. I will continue to treat people the way I wish to be treated and with any luck our rooms will be finished sometime this year :o)



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Tara Paterson

Tara has been building bridges with moms and families for many years. Her passion first revealed itself with JustforMom.com, a web site business with advice, ideas, and resources designed to "touch each Mom´s life, one Mom at a time." She went on to create Moms In Print, a resource to assist, educate, and guide mom writers to realize their dream of being a published author; and in July 2004, Ms. Paterson launched her 501 (c)3 non- profit concept- the Just For Mom foundation. The Foundation has been involved with projects that involve a grassroots effort to support the Reading Rainbow; the creation of the prestigious Mom´s Choice Award®; and is the recipient of a portion of the proceeds from the Chicken Soup series - Chicken Soup for the Mother and Sons Soul.

Tara received her parent coach certification through the Academy for Coaching Parents International; is a columnist for Children of the New Earth, an online publication; and is an expert blogger for the Partnership for a Drug Free America; she is also a trainer for the Academy for Coaching Parents.

She is the co-author of the book- Raising Intuitive Children (New Page Books, May '09) and is the spokesperson for the Mom's Choice Awards.

Tara was nominated as the 2002 Entrepreneur of the Year by the Loudoun County Chamber of Commerce, and was awarded Entrepreneur of the Year in 2003 by a Northern Virginia networking group.

She has been seen on CNN, the Today Show, the Early Show, 48 Hours and has been featured in the Washington Post, Newsweek, the Purcellville Gazette, the Loudoun Magazine and quoted in the USA Today and Parenting Magazine.


Tara Paterson is available for private coaching, presentations, lectures, and workshops. To find out more, visit her ParentingIntuitives blog.