Sex: Can Any Romantic Relationship Survive Without It?
Judy Ramsook
October 25, 2005
The early stages of the dating process can be a fun time, depending of course on what one is after.
One reason why the early stages of this type of socializing is labeled as the dating process is because it is too early in the game to be labeled a relationship.
For the real relationship may begin after physical contact has been made through that lingering kiss or further sexual contact.
And if both individuals involved are seeking the same if-I-go-out-with-you-for-one-day-I-feel-I-know-you-well-enough-to-engage-in-sexual-contact sort of arrangement, that is fine, but it seems like in today’s society, and in most circles, some persons are seeking sexual compatibility before all else.
So one is merrily going along with the dating process enjoying those late night telephone calls, and other forms of attention both persons concerned are showering upon each other when one of the parties out of the blue starts dropping hints about sexual contact.
At which point the female, if she is looking for the type of guy who will preferably get to know her mentally first, may get the feeling that the male party in the relationship may have been after that all along, the sexual part, just like the many other guys the female subject had dated prior to meeting this one she may have thought to be special.
And what if she gives in to his sexual innuendos in the hope that it will strengthen their bond, but instead the opposite occurs.
Like after being gratified, he, the male subject might not be showering the female with all that attention he once showed her, prior to their sexual contact.
That same old feeling comes back to haunt the female, a feeling she has felt on numerous occasions, one that screams of the old he-had-me-and-then-left sort of feeling.
What’s a girl to do? Can any relationship last if one does not give it up after a few dates?
Because once sexual contact is made the entire relationship changes. It could leave the both individuals coming back for more, or if he/she is not satisfied enough with his/her mate’s performance or lack thereof, it could signal the end of whatever good relationship they had prior to having sexual contact.
And although ultimately, all romantic bound relationships end up on that sexual route at some time or another, it could leave one wondering can any relationship survive without sexual contact, and where would romantic relationships be without it?
One reason why the early stages of this type of socializing is labeled as the dating process is because it is too early in the game to be labeled a relationship.
For the real relationship may begin after physical contact has been made through that lingering kiss or further sexual contact.
And if both individuals involved are seeking the same if-I-go-out-with-you-for-one-day-I-feel-I-know-you-well-enough-to-engage-in-sexual-contact sort of arrangement, that is fine, but it seems like in today’s society, and in most circles, some persons are seeking sexual compatibility before all else.
So one is merrily going along with the dating process enjoying those late night telephone calls, and other forms of attention both persons concerned are showering upon each other when one of the parties out of the blue starts dropping hints about sexual contact.
At which point the female, if she is looking for the type of guy who will preferably get to know her mentally first, may get the feeling that the male party in the relationship may have been after that all along, the sexual part, just like the many other guys the female subject had dated prior to meeting this one she may have thought to be special.
And what if she gives in to his sexual innuendos in the hope that it will strengthen their bond, but instead the opposite occurs.
Like after being gratified, he, the male subject might not be showering the female with all that attention he once showed her, prior to their sexual contact.
That same old feeling comes back to haunt the female, a feeling she has felt on numerous occasions, one that screams of the old he-had-me-and-then-left sort of feeling.
What’s a girl to do? Can any relationship last if one does not give it up after a few dates?
Because once sexual contact is made the entire relationship changes. It could leave the both individuals coming back for more, or if he/she is not satisfied enough with his/her mate’s performance or lack thereof, it could signal the end of whatever good relationship they had prior to having sexual contact.
And although ultimately, all romantic bound relationships end up on that sexual route at some time or another, it could leave one wondering can any relationship survive without sexual contact, and where would romantic relationships be without it?
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