Psyche Nursing 101
Monica King
October 22, 2005
O.K. gang. Here it is. A small simple distillation of everything I have learned in psyche nursing over the years. Straight up. Plain & simple.
This is for my son & daughters. As a way of immunizing THEM from future eras, & travesties such as these.
F___ the Bible. F____ anybody else in authority.
LISTEN UP!
When you are not honest with yourself, when you do everything you can to avoid sitting down ALONE with yourself to face the truth, that business is neurotic. It leads to obsessive/compulsive behavior.
When you disown your own shadow nature, & you project it outward onto other people, scapegoating them for your own pathetic shortcomings, that is called PROJECTION.
When you tolerate ANY SORT of deception in your relationships with any intimate members you consider a part of your family or your friendship circle, SOONER or LATER, it WILL come back to haunt you.
And there will be NOBODY ELSE TO BLAME.
You will face the consequences of "rationalizing" that decision, as in "it's only a white lie". "What they don't know won't hurt them".
Maybe not. But I can guarantee you, it WILL HURT YOU. Ted Kaminski said it. It is actually self-serving to tell the truth. Then you will not be plagued by the endless energy drain that occurs when you have to WORRY all the time about what you said to whom.
It is never HARD to remember the truth. Because it will not change.
Telling stories, spreading rumors, gossiping about other people you are actually clueless about just plain sucks. It pulls you into a cesspool of greys, into doubts, suspicions, jealousies, depressions, misery, which eventually lead the truly deranged at this point to PLOT & PLAN desperate attacks on others. And the ultimately insane conclusion that the only way OUT is then to KILL YOURSELF!
BECAUSE to attack someone OUTSIDE yourself, is a terrorist act. It is a FORM OF PROJECTION.
It' not ME, it's the other guy, the other chick. I am TOTALLY blameless. "I ain't dun nothin' wrong".
B.S.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When your friends abandon you, which they will when the know the truth about what you have done, there WILL be no one else to point the finger at in your lonely cell.
You may sit around & contemplate a crime. How you will do it. How you will seek & GET the revenge you so richly deserve on the other you think should pay for the lying you have been doing to yourself for so long you barely have remembered how to live as an innocent, guilt-free child,... but our crime labs are sophisticated now.
Nobody can actually outsmart them for long.
DNA does not lie. Blood does not lie. Evidence, when properly compiled by honorable & noble PEOPLE is what stacks up against you.
In the old days, it used to take an intense look from you mother, & your own conscience had the decency to make you blush for lying to her.
But that seems a distant memory now. So now we have highly trained forensic specialists to do the autopsies.
Would it not be better instead to go BACK to some of our old fashioned ways? Let Mom be Mom.
I may have failed UTTERLY & COMPLETELY at relationships with every single one of my peers, family & friends, but regardless, I am still a Mom. I was born to be one. And I WILL NOT capitulate the most important calling in my life to ANYONE ELSE.
And you who care ladies, who are also mothers, you will take what I am saying here directly to heart & place this most important calling FIRST in your life.
I don't care if I am "not with it". I don't care if it is "not stylish". That IS who I am now. For as long as I live & I DO intend to live a very. very long time, long after this maternal planet earth shrugs off the dinosaurs, the stupid ugly morons who have been raping her, plaguing her, maiming her for centuries with these wars & pollutions does so.
I will RIDE IT OUT WITH HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So cut the crap!!!!!! I say it again.
Vain & viperous brood of humanity that you are.
You have become so, so used to lying to yourselves & each other that WHEN you actually FEEL a primal stirring of RAGE, of PASSION which is NATURAL, you medicate yourselves. Instead of HONORING the conscience's built in alarm system.
So sad, too bad, my give a damn is busted.
You are on your own.
This is for my son & daughters. As a way of immunizing THEM from future eras, & travesties such as these.
F___ the Bible. F____ anybody else in authority.
LISTEN UP!
When you are not honest with yourself, when you do everything you can to avoid sitting down ALONE with yourself to face the truth, that business is neurotic. It leads to obsessive/compulsive behavior.
When you disown your own shadow nature, & you project it outward onto other people, scapegoating them for your own pathetic shortcomings, that is called PROJECTION.
When you tolerate ANY SORT of deception in your relationships with any intimate members you consider a part of your family or your friendship circle, SOONER or LATER, it WILL come back to haunt you.
And there will be NOBODY ELSE TO BLAME.
You will face the consequences of "rationalizing" that decision, as in "it's only a white lie". "What they don't know won't hurt them".
Maybe not. But I can guarantee you, it WILL HURT YOU. Ted Kaminski said it. It is actually self-serving to tell the truth. Then you will not be plagued by the endless energy drain that occurs when you have to WORRY all the time about what you said to whom.
It is never HARD to remember the truth. Because it will not change.
Telling stories, spreading rumors, gossiping about other people you are actually clueless about just plain sucks. It pulls you into a cesspool of greys, into doubts, suspicions, jealousies, depressions, misery, which eventually lead the truly deranged at this point to PLOT & PLAN desperate attacks on others. And the ultimately insane conclusion that the only way OUT is then to KILL YOURSELF!
BECAUSE to attack someone OUTSIDE yourself, is a terrorist act. It is a FORM OF PROJECTION.
It' not ME, it's the other guy, the other chick. I am TOTALLY blameless. "I ain't dun nothin' wrong".
B.S.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When your friends abandon you, which they will when the know the truth about what you have done, there WILL be no one else to point the finger at in your lonely cell.
You may sit around & contemplate a crime. How you will do it. How you will seek & GET the revenge you so richly deserve on the other you think should pay for the lying you have been doing to yourself for so long you barely have remembered how to live as an innocent, guilt-free child,... but our crime labs are sophisticated now.
Nobody can actually outsmart them for long.
DNA does not lie. Blood does not lie. Evidence, when properly compiled by honorable & noble PEOPLE is what stacks up against you.
In the old days, it used to take an intense look from you mother, & your own conscience had the decency to make you blush for lying to her.
But that seems a distant memory now. So now we have highly trained forensic specialists to do the autopsies.
Would it not be better instead to go BACK to some of our old fashioned ways? Let Mom be Mom.
I may have failed UTTERLY & COMPLETELY at relationships with every single one of my peers, family & friends, but regardless, I am still a Mom. I was born to be one. And I WILL NOT capitulate the most important calling in my life to ANYONE ELSE.
And you who care ladies, who are also mothers, you will take what I am saying here directly to heart & place this most important calling FIRST in your life.
I don't care if I am "not with it". I don't care if it is "not stylish". That IS who I am now. For as long as I live & I DO intend to live a very. very long time, long after this maternal planet earth shrugs off the dinosaurs, the stupid ugly morons who have been raping her, plaguing her, maiming her for centuries with these wars & pollutions does so.
I will RIDE IT OUT WITH HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So cut the crap!!!!!! I say it again.
Vain & viperous brood of humanity that you are.
You have become so, so used to lying to yourselves & each other that WHEN you actually FEEL a primal stirring of RAGE, of PASSION which is NATURAL, you medicate yourselves. Instead of HONORING the conscience's built in alarm system.
So sad, too bad, my give a damn is busted.
You are on your own.
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