Insider Real Estate Secrets Revealed! (Educational Course for Home Buyers and Sellers) Lesson # 10

Darren Meade
Welcome to this week's edition of Insider Real Estate Secrets Revealed! (Educational Course for Home Buyers and Sellers)

We hope you have learned a tremendous amount from our articles and we look forward to providing more educational material to help you on your home buying or selling journey. In this edition of Insider Real Estate Secrets Revealed, we will learn the 10 critical mistakes many people make when buying a home...and how you can avoid them! We're also discussing the 3 negotiating secrets all top Home Sellers know. So, sit back, relax, and enjoy this edition.

CAUTION! - Don't apply for a Mortgage until you read this report!

10 Critical Mistakes Most People Make When Applying for a Mortgage

Mistake #1 - Becoming a 'Rate Shopper'

Lenders love to run ads on TV and radio bragging about their super-low rates. Unfortunately, these rates aren't all they're cracked up to be. The rates you see in these advertisements are usually based on the best-case scenario. They require that you pay additional up-front fees and that you possess a perfect credit history in most cases.

This is why we refuse to post rates on our website. It would be a disservice to you, the valued client. Hundreds of loan programs are available and your rate will depend upon which program you choose. Choosing the wrong program might get you a great interest rate, but cost you tens of thousands in the long-run for other various reasons.

This is why we prefer to meet with you, discuss your financial goals and then recommend a program that has not only a low rate, but that will also help you achieve your goals. Schedule a NO COST consultation with us today by calling or visiting our website.

Mistake #2 - Not obtaining a Mortgage Pre-Approval

In some areas, a seller may not even deal with you until they can verify that you can actually afford to purchase their home. To them, a pre-approved buyer is essential. But even in cases where pre-approval is not mandatory, it is still wise to consult with a reputable mortgage company and receive a pre-approval. Especially considering that the pre-approval process is fast and easy.not to mention at NO COST to you!

Once you are pre-approved, you can embark upon your home buying journey with confidence, knowing that once you find your dream home, obtaining the money to buy it will be the easy part!

Mistake #3 - Believing You Need Perfect Credit and 20% Down to get Approved

Nothing could be further from the truth. Even if you have bad credit, no credit or no down payment, you may still qualify for a loan. Programs like FHA and VA make it easy for anyone - even First-Time Homebuyers - to get the financing they need to afford their dream home.

Every month that you wait to apply for a loan, is a month where you put money into your landlord's pocket instead of investing it in your future. DON'T WAIT. It's never been easier or cheaper to qualify for a home loan than it is RIGHT NOW.

Schedule a NO COST Pre-Approval Session with us today by visiting my website. We can't wait to say 'Congratulations - You're Approved!'

Mistake #4 - Getting your loan from an Internet Lender

Large internet-based lenders claim that they have thousands of lenders under one roof fighting for your loan, and because of this, you'll get the best rates and fees. Now the question you need to ask is: 'If this lender is so cheap, how can they afford this million-dollar television ad campaign?' The truth is that you will likely pay similar costs whether you obtain a loan from the Internet or from an in-town lender.

And if you choose an in-town lender, you'll get a lot better service. Why? Simple - local companies are more concerned about their reputation and therefore will do a better job of serving you. Most of the people we deal with are referrals from previous clients who were so happy with our service; they couldn't help but tell their friends and family!

Mistake #5 - Working with the Lender your Realtor® Recommended

Many times, Realtors® will refer their clients to a particular lender. Sometimes, it's because they know that the lender is truly the best. But far too often, it's because the Realtor® has a special referral relationship set up with the Mortgage Company they are referring you to.

This is why you need to interview your mortgage lender. Don't just take your Realtor's word for it! We recommend that you read our special report: '7 Questions Lenders Hate!' to learn what questions you need to ask when interviewing a mortgage lender.

Mistake #6 - Working with a Lender Who Offers Few Loan Program Choices

Not all lenders are created equal. Some lenders, (even ones who 'seem small'), have a larger company who stands behind them with dozens, or even hundreds of loan programs. As a consumer, this is great news for you.

The more loan programs there are to choose from, the better your chance will be to find one that fits your specific needs. Be on the lookout for lenders who only have a few loan programs and try to 'size you up' to fit into one of their restricted loan program choices.

Mistake #7 - Not Understanding the Difference between Banks and Lenders

You need to understand the difference between banks and individual mortgage originators. Banks handle savings accounts, car loans, investment accounts, etc. Mortgages are just one of many services they provide.

We're different because we only deal in mortgage loans. We sleep, eat, and breathe mortgage loans and nothing else. Would you go to a general physician to have heart surgery performed? Of course not. So why go to a big bank, when what you need is a mortgage specialist?

Mistake # 8 - Believing that Lenders are your Enemy

Studies show that most American's would rather see their dentist than have an appointment with a mortgage loan officer. The likely reason is that they are afraid of rejection - afraid of the big bad loan officer who will stamp a big red NO on their application. This is far from reality. We don't make any money unless we can say YES. As a matter of fact, we love to say YES to people just like you.

Mistake #9 - Not Disclosing Everything to Your Lender

Everyone has had a few financial problems in their past. We understand. We've heard it all and seen it all. So, when you come into apply, just be honest and disclose any past financial issues. This will make it easier for the lender to gauge your situation and provide you with best loan for your needs. If you hold back information and the lender finds out later, it could greatly affect the speed and difficulty of obtaining your loan. Remember, honesty is the best policy!


Mistake #10 - Making Critical Mistakes Prior to Applying for Your Loan

Without the proper guidance, you are likely to make critical mistakes when it counts most - immediately before you apply for your loan. These mistakes may cost you thousands, or at worst, deny you the privilege of owning your own home. Here are some best practices. Within 6 months of applying for your loan:

Don't make any large purchases on credit (cars, expensive furniture, electronics)

Don't move large amounts of money around between your various accounts

Don't apply for credit cards or other loans

Make all of your credit card and other loan payments on time, every time

Don't switch jobs, as employment stability is a key factor in getting approved

BONUS! - Mistake #11 - Not Getting a Written Lowest Closing Cost Guarantee

All lenders are required by law to provide what is called a Good Faith Estimate of Closing Costs. Use this 'Good Faith Estimate' as a tool to find the lowest price. You should ask any lender you speak with for a guarantee that clearly states, in-writing, that they have the lowest bottom-line closing cost.

If they can't provide you such a guarantee, in writing, then you should find another lender. We guarantee our closing costs, in-writing. As a matter of fact, we are so confident that we have the lowest cost that we'll PAY YOU cold-hard cash if you can find a better deal elsewhere.

For more information, schedule a pre-approval or application appointment with us now. At our appointment, we will give you a form that guarantees the lowest costs, in writing.

Revealed! - 3 Negotiating Strategies of Top Sellers

In this report, you'll learn how to get the most money for your home when you go to sell. Learn how to negotiate properly and avoid the BIG mistakes sellers everywhere are making.

Negotiating Strategy #1 - Never Show Your Cards

Remember the old country song by Kenny Rogers that goes 'you've got to know when to hold 'em and know when to fold 'em'? It's true with Poker and it's certainly true in Real Estate negotiations. First, know what you are legally obligated to reveal to the Buyer and their Real Estate Agent. There are certain items you are required to divulge to potential buyers. Consult with your Real Estate Agent for more information.

Also, be realistic and somewhat flexible. FAR too many sellers will overprice their homes and their Agents won't do a thing to stop it. Why? The Agent knows that the home will eventually sell. So, it's to their advantage in some cases to get a higher selling price, which will mean a higher commission check in their pocket. So, don't be afraid to consult with your Agent and tell them that you want to sell your home in a reasonable amount of time, which might mean lowering the price a bit.

Once you agree upon a reasonable selling price, be ready for the Buyer's Agent to negotiate with you in an attempt to get the best price. NEVER tell the Buyer or the Buyer's Agent what your absolute 'bottom-line' price is. Let them guess, which will help you at the bargaining table.

Negotiating Strategy #2 - Not asking your Real Estate Agent this question

As your Real Estate Agent this question: 'Are you working for the same company/brokerage as the Buyer's Agent?' If your Agent works for the same company as the Buyer's Agent, they are required by law to share everything with each other regarding your transaction. If you tell your Agent something, he or she will be required to share it with the Buyer's Real Estate Agent. Can you even imagine how this impacts negotiations? The term for this is 'Dual Agency'. If you discover that your Agent is working for the same company the Buyer's Agent, you should keep to yourself as much as possible. For instance, if you are willing to accept $2,000 less for your home as a bottom-line price, don't tell your agent, because they will be required to share this with the Buyer's Real Estate Agent.

Negotiating Strategy #3 - Acting Too Quickly

Especially if you are selling in a fast-paced market, you might feel pressured to quickly accept an offer placed on your home by a particular buyer. There is no need to feel any pressure, or for that matter, to act quickly. It's in your best interest to slow down, review the offer, and make sure it's on your terms. Once an offer is made on your home, you are in the driver's seat (well, at least somewhat). You're not completely in control, but you have identified a person who wants what you are selling, which means you have a bit more flexibility. So, relax and slow down a bit. Never accept an offer 'today'. Always tell the buyer or buyer's agent that you want to talk it over with your Real Estate Agent first.

BONUS TIP #4 - Home Buying Strategy

If you are selling your home, statistics say that you will likely buy a home here or somewhere in this state. You will soon be on the other side of the deal when you become a home buyer. You're going to participate in the largest financial transaction of your life the next time you buy. Are you ready? Have you done your homework?

Are you aware of the supply and demand statistics of home inventory vs. sales made this year? Are you aware of what % of total homes listed for sale actually sold last month, and more importantly, how that statistic can positively affect how you structure your purchase offer? Have you assessed the best use of your cash and planned to maximize your leverage?

In short, have you prepared a Home Purchase Strategy? We participate in many real estate transactions every month. Over time, we've learned a thing or two. Our staff would like to help you develop your personal strategy and consequently help you save thousands of dollars in the process.

We call this our Home Buyer's Coaching Session®. We put our experience to work for you, preparing you to make an informed, money saving offer. We do this at no cost.
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Darren Meade

To share with you a brief history, I was homeless as a teenager for two-and-half years where I lived in the streets begging for food and change. As you can imagine, my life was filled with a great deal of uncertainty.

By divine grace and guidance, I took shelter in the parking lot of a gym. The owner of the gym noticed me camping out there and after several weeks took me in. Pretty soon I had been adopted by the group of bodybuilders there and was given the nickname 'Pup'.

However, it was after the very painful experience of my father committing suicide six months after getting off the street that I began my personal journey into spiritual growth and began questioning how I could affect a greater number people in a more loving, profound and personal way.

Over the course of several years I went from being homeless to living in a condo on a golf course and representing the United States in international events culminating in winning the middleweight title of the IFBB Mr. North America bodybuilding competition. At the same time I co-founded a nutritional which exploded in the nutrition market and by age 27 I made my first million. Being young, I then squandered my first 3 million to turn around and build it again and again...slow learner at times!

Many of my lessons learned through out my spiritual path have been in the face of adversity. While "crisis" has often had its own way of waking me to the moment and reminding me of what is important to me now, it is not a requirement of this journey.

Just when I thought I had a handle on life, the handle broke.

I've learned another new lesson about life; including truly releasing and forgiving those whom hurt you. In April 2008 my aorta (main artery from your heart) ruptured in three (3) places.

I was given less than a 10% chance of survival and I was on life-support for 3 weeks. During this time the charge nurse spoke to a family friend and informed them they were going to amputate my leg, and that I was to young to die and they needed to transfer me to a new hospital (UCLA).

While I lived, my personal relationship ended within 10 days of my being discharged from the hospital. To be fair the doctors said I might never walk again, and that they believed I would be on a catheter for the rest of my life. I lost 50lbs of muscle. So she was leaving someone who might never be able to walk; make love or be able to return to work. However I've always been an over-achiever.

For instance I went off diaylisis, my bladder which had nerve damage returned to normal, the catheters out and I the leg another hospital wanted to amputate is responding and I'm learning to walk on it once again. I no longer use my wheel chair and am learning to walk without crutches.

The only suffering came from my own thoughts, believing this person would be with me to over-come these issues. I now realize that was the largest blessing of all.

EXECUTIVE BIOGRAPHY OF DARREN M. MEADE


Darren Meade, of Kairos-Meade, has a life, which exhibits the quintessential triumphant story. He was abandoned by his parents and homeless at the age of 14, weighing less than 100 pounds and today negotiates multi-million dollar agreements.

His business career developed initially from his passion for body building. As a youth, after being homeless for two-years, he was taken in by individuals who allowed him to utilize their company gym. Darren focused that passion and successfully won several awards in competitive body building, culminating in winning the Mr. North America title for the middleweight division and represented the United States in international events. His extensive exposure in competitive body building assisted in developing relationships with industry leaders in the medical device and nutritional supplement industries.

As Darren rapidly progressed in
professional endeavors, he designed a new business model not yet used in the industry for a then unknown nutritional company. The retail experiment led by Darren worked, and within two years he drove sales from $1 million to in excess of $40 million.

Moving forward to his next success, Darren proved that he could do it again and took another company to $35 million in a single year. He diligently oversaw all facets of assisting an international research organization´s quest to gain acceptance in the U.S. biotechnology sector by partnering with one of the world´s largest biotechnology companies within only five-months. This was accomplished after the organization had tried for years and used over 50 consultants and development personnel without results.

A key to Darren´s success is his passion for each new business he enters. He specializes in building profitable long-term relationships with clients, vendors and staff.
He has proven that success is contagious.

In addition to his business accomplishments, Darren has actively participated through service of time and finances to homeless shelters and civic community organizations. He is a Deputy CEO of the Invisible Youth Foundation. Darren recently volunteered on Arnold Schwarzenegger´s successful run for Governor. Due to his efforts, he was offered a position in Sacramento. He was selected by the Orange County Register to write columns regarding the process of the campaign through to the inauguration and planning for policies.