Revealed! - 3 Negotiating Strategies of Top Sellers

Darren Meade
Revealed! - 3 Negotiating Strategies of Top Sellers

In this article, you’ll learn how to get the most money for your home when you go to sell. Learn how to negotiate properly and avoid the BIG mistakes sellers everywhere are making.

Negotiating Strategy #1 - Never Show Your Cards

Remember the old country song by Kenny Rogers that goes “you’ve got to know when to hold'em and know when to fold 'em”? It’s true with Poker and it’s certainly true in Real Estate negotiations. First, know what you are legally obligated to reveal to the Buyer and their Real Estate Agent. There are certain items you are required to divulge to potential buyers. Consult with your Real Estate Agent for more information.

Also, be realistic and somewhat flexible. FAR too many sellers will overprice their homes and their Agents won’t do a thing to stop it. Why? The Agent knows that the home will eventually sell. So, it's to their advantage in some cases to get a higher selling price, which will mean a higher commission check in their pocket. So, don’t be afraid to consult with your Agent and tell them that you want to sell your home in a reasonable amount of time, which might mean lowering the price a bit. Once you agree upon a reasonable selling price, be ready for the Buyer’s Agent to negotiate with you in an attempt to get the best price. NEVER tell the Buyer or the Buyer’s Agent what your absolute “bottom-line” price is. Let them guess, which will help you at the bargaining table.

Negotiating Strategy #2 - Not asking your Real Estate Agent this question

As your Real Estate Agent this question: “Are you working for the same company/brokerage as the Buyer’s Agent?” If your Agent works for the same company as the Buyer’s Agent, they are required by law to share everything with each other regarding your transaction. If you tell your Agent something, he or she will be required to share it with the Buyer’s Real Estate Agent. Can you even imagine how this impacts negotiations? The term for this is “Dual Agency”. If you discover that your Agent is working for the same company the Buyer’s Agent, you should keep to yourself as much as possible. For instance, if you are willing to accept $2,000 less for your home as a bottom-line price, don’t tell your agent, because they will be required to share this

with the Buyer’s Real Estate Agent.


Negotiating Strategy #3 - Acting Too Quickly

Especially if you are selling in a fast-paced market, you might feel pressured to quickly accept an offer placed on your home by a particular buyer. There is no need to feel any pressure, or for that matter, to act quickly. It’s in your best interest to slow down, review the offer, and make sure it’s

on your terms. Once an offer is made on your home, you are in the driver’s seat (well, at least somewhat). You’re not completely in control, but you have identified a person who wants what you are selling, which means you have a bit more flexibility. So, relax and slow down a bit. Never accept an offer “today”. Always tell the buyer or buyer’s agent that you want to talk it over with your Real Estate Agent first...

BONUS Strategy #4 – Develop a Home Buying Strategy

If you are selling your home, statistics say that you will likely buy a home here or somewhere in this state. You will soon be on the other side of the deal when you become a home buyer. You’re going to participate in the largest financial transaction of your life the next time you buy. Are you ready? Have you done your homework?

Are you aware of the supply and demand statistics of home inventory vs. sales made this year? Are you aware of what % of total homes listed for sale actually sold last month, and more importantly, how that statistic can positively affect how you structure your purchase offer? Have you assessed the best use of your cash and planned to maximize your leverage? In short, have you prepared a Home Purchase Strategy? We participate in many real estate transactions every month. Over time, we’ve learned a thing or two. Our staff would like to help you develop your personal strategy and consequently help you save thousands of dollars in the process. We call this our Home Buyer's Coaching Session®. We put our experience to work for you, preparing you to make an informed, money saving offer. We do this at no cost. Why? Simple - if we do a good job helping you prepare, maybe we can earn your mortgage business. We are sure willing to try. Are you willing to spend 30 minutes with us? Don't wait, visit our website to request your FREE Home Buyer's Coaching Session® NOW. We’ll contact you right away to schedule your consultation.
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Darren Meade

To share with you a brief history, I was homeless as a teenager for two-and-half years where I lived in the streets begging for food and change. As you can imagine, my life was filled with a great deal of uncertainty.

By divine grace and guidance, I took shelter in the parking lot of a gym. The owner of the gym noticed me camping out there and after several weeks took me in. Pretty soon I had been adopted by the group of bodybuilders there and was given the nickname 'Pup'.

However, it was after the very painful experience of my father committing suicide six months after getting off the street that I began my personal journey into spiritual growth and began questioning how I could affect a greater number people in a more loving, profound and personal way.

Over the course of several years I went from being homeless to living in a condo on a golf course and representing the United States in international events culminating in winning the middleweight title of the IFBB Mr. North America bodybuilding competition. At the same time I co-founded a nutritional which exploded in the nutrition market and by age 27 I made my first million. Being young, I then squandered my first 3 million to turn around and build it again and again...slow learner at times!

Many of my lessons learned through out my spiritual path have been in the face of adversity. While "crisis" has often had its own way of waking me to the moment and reminding me of what is important to me now, it is not a requirement of this journey.

Just when I thought I had a handle on life, the handle broke.

I've learned another new lesson about life; including truly releasing and forgiving those whom hurt you. In April 2008 my aorta (main artery from your heart) ruptured in three (3) places.

I was given less than a 10% chance of survival and I was on life-support for 3 weeks. During this time the charge nurse spoke to a family friend and informed them they were going to amputate my leg, and that I was to young to die and they needed to transfer me to a new hospital (UCLA).

While I lived, my personal relationship ended within 10 days of my being discharged from the hospital. To be fair the doctors said I might never walk again, and that they believed I would be on a catheter for the rest of my life. I lost 50lbs of muscle. So she was leaving someone who might never be able to walk; make love or be able to return to work. However I've always been an over-achiever.

For instance I went off diaylisis, my bladder which had nerve damage returned to normal, the catheters out and I the leg another hospital wanted to amputate is responding and I'm learning to walk on it once again. I no longer use my wheel chair and am learning to walk without crutches.

The only suffering came from my own thoughts, believing this person would be with me to over-come these issues. I now realize that was the largest blessing of all.

EXECUTIVE BIOGRAPHY OF DARREN M. MEADE


Darren Meade, of Kairos-Meade, has a life, which exhibits the quintessential triumphant story. He was abandoned by his parents and homeless at the age of 14, weighing less than 100 pounds and today negotiates multi-million dollar agreements.

His business career developed initially from his passion for body building. As a youth, after being homeless for two-years, he was taken in by individuals who allowed him to utilize their company gym. Darren focused that passion and successfully won several awards in competitive body building, culminating in winning the Mr. North America title for the middleweight division and represented the United States in international events. His extensive exposure in competitive body building assisted in developing relationships with industry leaders in the medical device and nutritional supplement industries.

As Darren rapidly progressed in
professional endeavors, he designed a new business model not yet used in the industry for a then unknown nutritional company. The retail experiment led by Darren worked, and within two years he drove sales from $1 million to in excess of $40 million.

Moving forward to his next success, Darren proved that he could do it again and took another company to $35 million in a single year. He diligently oversaw all facets of assisting an international research organization´s quest to gain acceptance in the U.S. biotechnology sector by partnering with one of the world´s largest biotechnology companies within only five-months. This was accomplished after the organization had tried for years and used over 50 consultants and development personnel without results.

A key to Darren´s success is his passion for each new business he enters. He specializes in building profitable long-term relationships with clients, vendors and staff.
He has proven that success is contagious.

In addition to his business accomplishments, Darren has actively participated through service of time and finances to homeless shelters and civic community organizations. He is a Deputy CEO of the Invisible Youth Foundation. Darren recently volunteered on Arnold Schwarzenegger´s successful run for Governor. Due to his efforts, he was offered a position in Sacramento. He was selected by the Orange County Register to write columns regarding the process of the campaign through to the inauguration and planning for policies.