EXPOSED! - The 3 Rules of Negotiating with a Home Seller

Darren Meade
EXPOSED! - The 3 Rules of Negotiating with a Home Seller

Negotiating - a word that strikes fear into the hearts of most homebuyers. If you are like most people, when you hear the word negotiating, you cringe, picturing a heated confrontation where tempers flare and big numbers are volleyed back and forth across the table.

It doesn't have to be that way. It's perfectly reasonable to expect the seller to make some concessions while you do the same. Meet in the middle.

Negotiating Tip #1 - Be Realistic

When entering a negotiation with a Home Seller, you need to be Realistic. If the house you are looking to purchase has 6 bids already, your chances of getting thousands of dollars slashed from the price are slim. Negotiating in these cases may prove to simply be a waste of your valuable time. This is especially true in hot markets like Boston, San Diego and Miami.

Even in a case where the home seller is willing to make concessions, and you have a strong bargaining position, you should never attempt to 'go for the throat'. Be reasonable. If you know the home is priced $3,000 above what you are willing to pay, tell the Seller that the home is priced $3,000 too high, but that you would be willing to sign a Purchase Agreement today if the Seller were to bring the price down $1500. This way, it's a win-win all around. The seller is happy and you walk away content in the knowledge that you successfully slashed $1500 from the home price.

Negotiating Tip #2 - NEVER Show Your Cards

Remember the old country song by Kenny Rogers that goes 'you've got to know when to hold em' and know when to fold em''? It's true with Poker and it's certainly true in Real Estate negotiations.

When you walk into the home of your dreams, don't scream out, 'oh it's beautiful - I'd do anything for a house like this!' Around the Seller and the Seller's Real Estate Agent, keep your emotions in check. If the Seller is aware that you are in love with the home, they will have a strong bargaining position. But if they think there is a chance you will walk away from the table, they will be more willing to negotiate on your terms.


Negotiating Tip #3 - Do Your Homework

It's time to go to school. First, you need to make a checklist of everything you want in a home and then prioritize the list. Amenities you can't live without should top the list and then the other items should be listed in descending order of priority. If you know what you want before you start, it will make the entire process easier, and give you an idea of how much leeway you have in negotiating (i.e. if you are in love with a home and it has everything on your list, you may be less apt to try and haggle the Seller's price down).

You also need to be aware of what market conditions are like in your area. Take this simple quiz and see if you know the answers:

1.) Are you aware of the supply and demand statistics of home inventory vs. sales made this year?

2.) Are you aware of what % of total homes listed for sale actually sold last month

3.) Are you aware of how the total % of homes sold last month can positively affect how you structure your purchase offer?

4.) Have you assessed the best use of your cash and planned to maximize your leverage?

In short, have you prepared a Home Purchase Strategy? We participate in many real estate transactions every month. Over time, we've learned a thing or two. Our staff would like to help you develop your personal strategy and consequently help you save thousands of dollars in the process.

We call this our Home Buyers Coaching Session®. We put our experience to work for you, preparing you to make an informed, money saving offer. We do this at no cost.

Why? Simple - if we do a good job helping you prepare, maybe we can earn your mortgage business. We are sure willing to try. Are you willing to spend 30 minutes with us?

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Darren Meade

To share with you a brief history, I was homeless as a teenager for two-and-half years where I lived in the streets begging for food and change. As you can imagine, my life was filled with a great deal of uncertainty.

By divine grace and guidance, I took shelter in the parking lot of a gym. The owner of the gym noticed me camping out there and after several weeks took me in. Pretty soon I had been adopted by the group of bodybuilders there and was given the nickname 'Pup'.

However, it was after the very painful experience of my father committing suicide six months after getting off the street that I began my personal journey into spiritual growth and began questioning how I could affect a greater number people in a more loving, profound and personal way.

Over the course of several years I went from being homeless to living in a condo on a golf course and representing the United States in international events culminating in winning the middleweight title of the IFBB Mr. North America bodybuilding competition. At the same time I co-founded a nutritional which exploded in the nutrition market and by age 27 I made my first million. Being young, I then squandered my first 3 million to turn around and build it again and again...slow learner at times!

Many of my lessons learned through out my spiritual path have been in the face of adversity. While "crisis" has often had its own way of waking me to the moment and reminding me of what is important to me now, it is not a requirement of this journey.

Just when I thought I had a handle on life, the handle broke.

I've learned another new lesson about life; including truly releasing and forgiving those whom hurt you. In April 2008 my aorta (main artery from your heart) ruptured in three (3) places.

I was given less than a 10% chance of survival and I was on life-support for 3 weeks. During this time the charge nurse spoke to a family friend and informed them they were going to amputate my leg, and that I was to young to die and they needed to transfer me to a new hospital (UCLA).

While I lived, my personal relationship ended within 10 days of my being discharged from the hospital. To be fair the doctors said I might never walk again, and that they believed I would be on a catheter for the rest of my life. I lost 50lbs of muscle. So she was leaving someone who might never be able to walk; make love or be able to return to work. However I've always been an over-achiever.

For instance I went off diaylisis, my bladder which had nerve damage returned to normal, the catheters out and I the leg another hospital wanted to amputate is responding and I'm learning to walk on it once again. I no longer use my wheel chair and am learning to walk without crutches.

The only suffering came from my own thoughts, believing this person would be with me to over-come these issues. I now realize that was the largest blessing of all.

EXECUTIVE BIOGRAPHY OF DARREN M. MEADE


Darren Meade, of Kairos-Meade, has a life, which exhibits the quintessential triumphant story. He was abandoned by his parents and homeless at the age of 14, weighing less than 100 pounds and today negotiates multi-million dollar agreements.

His business career developed initially from his passion for body building. As a youth, after being homeless for two-years, he was taken in by individuals who allowed him to utilize their company gym. Darren focused that passion and successfully won several awards in competitive body building, culminating in winning the Mr. North America title for the middleweight division and represented the United States in international events. His extensive exposure in competitive body building assisted in developing relationships with industry leaders in the medical device and nutritional supplement industries.

As Darren rapidly progressed in
professional endeavors, he designed a new business model not yet used in the industry for a then unknown nutritional company. The retail experiment led by Darren worked, and within two years he drove sales from $1 million to in excess of $40 million.

Moving forward to his next success, Darren proved that he could do it again and took another company to $35 million in a single year. He diligently oversaw all facets of assisting an international research organization´s quest to gain acceptance in the U.S. biotechnology sector by partnering with one of the world´s largest biotechnology companies within only five-months. This was accomplished after the organization had tried for years and used over 50 consultants and development personnel without results.

A key to Darren´s success is his passion for each new business he enters. He specializes in building profitable long-term relationships with clients, vendors and staff.
He has proven that success is contagious.

In addition to his business accomplishments, Darren has actively participated through service of time and finances to homeless shelters and civic community organizations. He is a Deputy CEO of the Invisible Youth Foundation. Darren recently volunteered on Arnold Schwarzenegger´s successful run for Governor. Due to his efforts, he was offered a position in Sacramento. He was selected by the Orange County Register to write columns regarding the process of the campaign through to the inauguration and planning for policies.