If You Wanted A Virgin For A Mate, Would You Also Not Buy Anything Used?
Judy Ramsook
November 05, 2006
Some people in our midst are real perfectionists. If they are fortunate enough, such individuals will not want to own anything that was previously owned or used by another.
Although such persons belong to a small section of the population, they might not frequent such places as flea markets, swap meets or even purchase something from the ebay website, unless of course, they are certain the item they are purchasing is brand new.
When it comes to the matter of falling in love though, would many people want to be with some one who has had previous sexual or romantic partners? Just how far would you go if you were such a perfectionist?
Some people have serious reservations about this. For example, certain individuals who are accustomed to having the spotlight on them most of the time might not want to get involved with some one who has kids from a previous relationship or marriage.
Of course, the reason for this is simple. They might feel they are being neglected if the person with whom they are involved is spending more time and attention with his/her own kids. For others, it might go a bit deeper.
When some people are ready to settle down or get married, they would prefer to be with some one who is as close to being a virgin as possible.
They do not want anyone who has say, been around the block a few times. In fact, in some more conservative cultures in the world, some men would not marry a woman unless he is certain that she is as pure as he would like her to be.
Here’s the strange thing though. Since we all know what a mysterious entity love is, no one is truly certain with whom he/she will fall in love.
It could well turn out to be some one who is chaste, or some one who has a questionable reputation when it comes to matters of the heart. The feelings and chemistry fall where they may.
I guess such persons who want their things or love interests to be brand new or virginal might not even entertain the notion of purchasing a used car, would they?
Although such persons belong to a small section of the population, they might not frequent such places as flea markets, swap meets or even purchase something from the ebay website, unless of course, they are certain the item they are purchasing is brand new.
When it comes to the matter of falling in love though, would many people want to be with some one who has had previous sexual or romantic partners? Just how far would you go if you were such a perfectionist?
Some people have serious reservations about this. For example, certain individuals who are accustomed to having the spotlight on them most of the time might not want to get involved with some one who has kids from a previous relationship or marriage.
Of course, the reason for this is simple. They might feel they are being neglected if the person with whom they are involved is spending more time and attention with his/her own kids. For others, it might go a bit deeper.
When some people are ready to settle down or get married, they would prefer to be with some one who is as close to being a virgin as possible.
They do not want anyone who has say, been around the block a few times. In fact, in some more conservative cultures in the world, some men would not marry a woman unless he is certain that she is as pure as he would like her to be.
Here’s the strange thing though. Since we all know what a mysterious entity love is, no one is truly certain with whom he/she will fall in love.
It could well turn out to be some one who is chaste, or some one who has a questionable reputation when it comes to matters of the heart. The feelings and chemistry fall where they may.
I guess such persons who want their things or love interests to be brand new or virginal might not even entertain the notion of purchasing a used car, would they?
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