The Rules Book - Stay in Control of Your Relationship

Have you ever read The Rules Book? If you haven´t been lucky enough to have read The Rules Book and you´re currently dating, get a copy fast. One of the biggest mistakes women (and teenage girls) make today is approaching men they find attractive first.

Have Times Really Changed?

Let´s face it you rationalize, it´s 2010. Why can't women just go up to a man and ask him to dance? Why can´t we just say "hi" to them?

The Rules Book tells you why. No matter how much women refuse to accept this, the truth of the matter is - man pursues woman. Biologically, men are hunters.

Don't Talk to a Man First

By talking to a man first, you kill his desire to chase you. Men love a challenge. By calling men and chasing them, you make them lose interest in you fast.

A man must spot you and make the effort to come to your side of the room and introduce himself. This kind of old school dating advice works. Why?

The Dating Rules Haven't Changed

Because it's a fact! He'll lose interest if you make the chase too easy. By talking to a man first, you won´t know if he´s just being polite or if he is really, really crazy about you and must have your number.

Here are some common excuses women use to talk to men first:

He told me to call him some time

He told me he needed the name of a good massage therapist

He hasn´t called me and I wanted to make sure he didn´t lose my telephone number

I just moved and forgot to give him my new cell

I just wanted to say "Hi"

Listen girls, if you want your relationship to start out right, you need to follow these 10 basic rules:

Be a creature unlike any other

Don´t talk to a man first (don´t ask him to dance)

Don´t look at men or stare at them (dead giveaway you like them)

Don´t go dutch on a date

Don´t accept a Saturday night date after Wednesday

Always end the date first

Be busy sometimes when he calls

Don´t call him and rarely return his calls

Don´t stay on the phone longer than 10 minutes with him

Always end phone calls first

Now, I know I´m going to get a lot of flack for giving these pointers out, but I assure you - behaving in the above way will have your man eating out of your hand.You won't have to worry about your guy chasing after your best friend.

You´ll also never hear him say, I need space when you follow these time tested secrets of capturing the heart of Mr. Right. Read The Rules Book and start dating with dignity.