How to be Romantic - The Art of Seduction
Mary Lanphier
August 25, 2006
ro.man.tic [roh-man-tik] - characterized by a preoccupation with love or by the idealizing of love or one's beloved; ardent; passionate; fervent.
What is it exactly that makes a woman see a man as romantic? Most of the time it's the little things that women notice. A glance, a quick touch or brush across her back. Sure, flowers are nice, but haven't they almost become a cliché? That's not to say women don't like flowers because they do, but if that's all you've got then it will only go so far. You have to mix it up, change your style and use your imagination to create romantic moments.
The key factor in creating romantic moments is to put the lady’s likes ahead of your own.
The other thing to remember is that women enjoy attention, touching and knowing their partner WANTS them. Sex isn't always the end result and showing a woman that you can give her the attention she craves, the touches she responds to and little things to show you care and are thinking of her will get you farther than you've ever imagined.
Creating romantic moments is so easy it’s a wonder every man in the world doesn’t “get” this. All you have to do is think of an activity built around something she likes to do. Does she like shopping (not something men even like to think about much less do), fine dining, walks on a beach, watching movies? The list goes on.
It's all about doing something she likes with her. What will make such activities seem even more romantic to her is if you choose to do something she likes to do when a ball game is on TV that you could be watching with your buddies. She will feel chosen…and that, sir, is VERY romantic indeed.
It doesn’t matter which activity to choose to participate in with the woman that you want to think of you as romantic. The trick is for you to be totally involved mentally in the activity and not staring off into space or obviously just wishing it were over so you could go do what you really want to do. Remember this is you trying to be romantic so concentrate on the project at hand.
It really is so very easy to create romantic moments. With only a little thinking and planning, romantic moments can happen every day and at the most unexpected moments. Being romantic is a win/win situation. There is no reason not to make romantic moments happen at every opportunity.
Next time you think of her skin, touch her. When you think of an activity she enjoys, plan it. If you see something you think she'd enjoy, buy it.
The ultimate? A nice card with a hand written note inside, describing your feelings. OK, I know you guys have difficulty in this area but break out of your mold once in a while and bite the bullet. You'll be surprised at the results!
What is it exactly that makes a woman see a man as romantic? Most of the time it's the little things that women notice. A glance, a quick touch or brush across her back. Sure, flowers are nice, but haven't they almost become a cliché? That's not to say women don't like flowers because they do, but if that's all you've got then it will only go so far. You have to mix it up, change your style and use your imagination to create romantic moments.
The key factor in creating romantic moments is to put the lady’s likes ahead of your own.
The other thing to remember is that women enjoy attention, touching and knowing their partner WANTS them. Sex isn't always the end result and showing a woman that you can give her the attention she craves, the touches she responds to and little things to show you care and are thinking of her will get you farther than you've ever imagined.
Creating romantic moments is so easy it’s a wonder every man in the world doesn’t “get” this. All you have to do is think of an activity built around something she likes to do. Does she like shopping (not something men even like to think about much less do), fine dining, walks on a beach, watching movies? The list goes on.
It's all about doing something she likes with her. What will make such activities seem even more romantic to her is if you choose to do something she likes to do when a ball game is on TV that you could be watching with your buddies. She will feel chosen…and that, sir, is VERY romantic indeed.
It doesn’t matter which activity to choose to participate in with the woman that you want to think of you as romantic. The trick is for you to be totally involved mentally in the activity and not staring off into space or obviously just wishing it were over so you could go do what you really want to do. Remember this is you trying to be romantic so concentrate on the project at hand.
It really is so very easy to create romantic moments. With only a little thinking and planning, romantic moments can happen every day and at the most unexpected moments. Being romantic is a win/win situation. There is no reason not to make romantic moments happen at every opportunity.
Next time you think of her skin, touch her. When you think of an activity she enjoys, plan it. If you see something you think she'd enjoy, buy it.
The ultimate? A nice card with a hand written note inside, describing your feelings. OK, I know you guys have difficulty in this area but break out of your mold once in a while and bite the bullet. You'll be surprised at the results!
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