Spirituality Conquers All
Physically, I'm African-American, male, 5'6", 150 lbs and have slightly gapped front teeth, thick eyebrows, high-set narrow eyes with large eyelids, a large face with a broad forehead and large, but not jug or pointy, ears. Physically, I'm rather teddy bear-like. Physically, I'm not what many women would find attractive or sexy--and I don't care.
I am not my body. I am not an image in a mirror, photograph or video. I am an infinite spirit--a soul--inhabiting a body, a home, The Creator gave me.
The same is true of all souls of the past, present and future. The notion of ourselves and others as our physical images is a trap. It separates us from ourselves, each other and The Creator.
Imagine how much better the world would be if we all saw ourselves and each other as we truly are--infinite spiritual beings within finite physical bodies. Imagine how much better it would be if we all related to each other as such. Imagine how this awareness can enhance people's sex lives.
This is the tantric sex of Hindu and Buddhist teaching. Having spiritual connections before and during sexual unions intensifies people's sexual attraction and pleasure. Spiritual compatibility means sexual compatibility, which means otherworldly, simultaneous sexual bliss.
Seeing your spiritual self independent of traps laid by the world with its theories and conventions will enhance every area of your life. You will have greater harmony within you, around you and with The Creator. As the old Eureka vacuum cleaner slogan went, "Try it. You'll like it."