Why are girls so difficult?
Shabd A. Sharma
October 08, 2006
Why are girls so difficult to understand? I have found no exact answer to this question despite repeated attempts. Whether I am the only one who does not understand girls or every body feels like that; whether I failed to understand only one girl whom I wanted to understand or every girl is difficult to understand, this is also a question I have found no answer for so far.
They are emotional but why do they care only about their own feelings? When you try to be emotional with them, they say you have a weak soul and when you try to be bold with them they say you lack feeling. They want praise, but when you praise them they say you are flirting with them. And when you don’t praise, they say you don’t know how to praise a girl.
They want you to be helpful, but when you try to help them they say you are making meaningless attempt to impress them. And when you don’t take initiative, they say you are selfish. When you take a lead to pay bus fare when you are traveling together, they say you are trying to impress them and when you don’t do it they say you are cunning. When you go for a date, they want you to look handsome and well dressed, but when you do it, they think you are showy. And when you dress rough and tough, they say you don’t even know how to dress while going for a date.
When you don’t talk to them, they say you are arrogant and when you talk to them they say you are taking unnecessary interest on them. When you are serious they say you lacked humor and you are unromantic and when you try to be romantic and humorous, they say you are going more than needed.
When you find your girl friend sad and ask why is she sad, she can be so rude that she can say it is her life and she is not answerable to you. And when you don’t ask, she will say you don’t know how to care her and you cannot be a friend of her as you did not take any concern when she was feeling low. When you go to talk to them, send SMS or emails, they say you are disturbing them and when you don’t do it they say you are ignoring them. When she falls in love with you, you cannot avoid her even if you don’t feel anything about her. But when you fall in love with her and you say you cannot live without her, she can say ‘so what? Go to the hell. It does not make any difference to me’.
When they say you don’t understand them, you may defend by saying nobody can understand anybody hundred percent. But when you say they don’t understand you, they can cross the limit and say I don’t need to understand you. And, when you show even 10 per cent of rudeness they show to you, they stop talking to you and they can even break all relationship for no reason.
They are emotional but why do they care only about their own feelings? When you try to be emotional with them, they say you have a weak soul and when you try to be bold with them they say you lack feeling. They want praise, but when you praise them they say you are flirting with them. And when you don’t praise, they say you don’t know how to praise a girl.
They want you to be helpful, but when you try to help them they say you are making meaningless attempt to impress them. And when you don’t take initiative, they say you are selfish. When you take a lead to pay bus fare when you are traveling together, they say you are trying to impress them and when you don’t do it they say you are cunning. When you go for a date, they want you to look handsome and well dressed, but when you do it, they think you are showy. And when you dress rough and tough, they say you don’t even know how to dress while going for a date.
When you don’t talk to them, they say you are arrogant and when you talk to them they say you are taking unnecessary interest on them. When you are serious they say you lacked humor and you are unromantic and when you try to be romantic and humorous, they say you are going more than needed.
When you find your girl friend sad and ask why is she sad, she can be so rude that she can say it is her life and she is not answerable to you. And when you don’t ask, she will say you don’t know how to care her and you cannot be a friend of her as you did not take any concern when she was feeling low. When you go to talk to them, send SMS or emails, they say you are disturbing them and when you don’t do it they say you are ignoring them. When she falls in love with you, you cannot avoid her even if you don’t feel anything about her. But when you fall in love with her and you say you cannot live without her, she can say ‘so what? Go to the hell. It does not make any difference to me’.
When they say you don’t understand them, you may defend by saying nobody can understand anybody hundred percent. But when you say they don’t understand you, they can cross the limit and say I don’t need to understand you. And, when you show even 10 per cent of rudeness they show to you, they stop talking to you and they can even break all relationship for no reason.